Motivation

Moust likly everyone on their live's reaches a point, where they ask, why does some people have success, and others struggle all their life and achieve nothing? whats the diference? whats the key to make the change?
My answer to those questions and all others related in any way to this subject, is Motivation!, the diference between someone that reaches his goal and someone that doesnt, is the ability to stay on track, stay motivated and do whatever it takes to reach it.
This applys to everything, beeing your goal, loose weight, gain muscle, get good grades at school, finding that special person to share your life, making that relationship work, geting the job that you dream. Whatever it is all you gotta do is take a few minutes and decide, make it clear in your mind, what do you want and why do you want it?
Ok lets say your objective is to get better grades at school, that is now clear in your mind, you know that is your goal! but why do you want it? you must dig deep and go to the root of of your reallity. Is it to feel better about yourself? make your parents proud? whatever it is, it must be clear to you.
Now you know what you want, and why you want it, but how do you get it?
here are 6 guide lines that i hope will get you in the right direction:
Trust yourself : You must believe that you have what it takes to get the job done, dont let anything move you away from your goal.
Break some rules : You gotta think outside the box, and be creative, this is how the great things in history were created, if it was not for this, we would still be caveman, now keep in mind breaking some rules does not mean breaking the law, keep all your actions according to the law and beeing a responsible member of your society.
Dont be afraid to fail: If your afraid to fail you will forever be locked in your own mind, thinking, "what if i fail?" let it go! success is in giving your best, failure does not exist unless you believe in it.
Dont listen to nay sayers : Dont let anyone tell you that you cant! if you believe in it and you fight for it you will have what you want, dont let nobody tell you otherwise.
Work HARD!: Nothing will be reached without hard work and sacrifice, No pain No gain, but trust me when you really want something, every single minute of it will be more then worth it.
Give back: Give back to your family, comunity, world, sharing your knowledge your wealth whatever it is that you have available, make it count, there is no greater feeling then helping other ppl, on their needs and on their persuit for hapiness.